Announcements in Korean, Chinese, English and Japanese haunt the three-quarter empty passageways that are usually full…
Read MoreI’m sorry. I’ll miss you terribly. You look at me hurt…
Read MoreI was mortified to learn that a Tokyo Christmas meant cozying up over a bucket of KFC…
Read MoreMy “real” boyfriend has his family coming from Brazil. He politely tells me to “move out” for the duration of the trip. I pay half the rent…
Read MoreIt’s my favorite choice for our annual Christmas brunch at one of the hotels in Tokyo…
Read MoreMy blue eyes and straight nose a legacy of Northern Europe and gifts from my ancestors…
Read MoreWoody persimmons sit on a small Japanese table with dark marker grimaces. Acrid pumpkins from China are baskets for treats...
Read MoreI adapted to the new environment, but life never became easier. As I walked down the street, students from my school would yell, calling me Chinese…
Read MoreMarch 11, 2011. Just an ordinary day. Then earth fell away beneath us…
Read MoreOf course, I envy your ability to switch from Japanese to English and back again, like a ping pong ball ricochets and zings out of a corner.
Read MoreThere shouldn’t be an issue of not accepting another culture or religion just because you don’t like it or because you don’t understand it. Is this lack of tolerance something we might eventually be proud of? I shudder at the thought…
Read MoreYou pour your heart out. List your every reason, incident and rebuke. And still my little boat has not swamped and floundered. But now my shoes are wet and my socks are falling down in water weight…
Read More"愛してたと嘆くには (I was in love once, I sigh) あまりにも時はすぎてしまった (far too much time has passed me by)." There's an uproar in the karaoke box...
Read MoreOn the silted shores of that Kashmiri lake from my childhood - my shoes slowly ruining in the slush of snow, mud and plum blossoms - I stood beside the houseboat we were staying in (which once hosted Henry Kissinger). That was the month Indira Gandhi was voted out and my whole family got stuck in India.
Read MoreI couldn’t make up my mind so I bought one of each. My fingers were the worse for wear because the bags were only big enough to cover them, not carry them…
Read More"Hi. Where are you going?," a man asked me as he sat across from me at the bus station in Alabama.
We just got off the same bus from Atlanta to some city in Alabama, Birmingham, maybe? I don't know the geography of Alabama at all. I still can't look at maps of Alabama without crying...
My passport tells an improbable tale of birth, country of origin and address of emergency contact….
Read MoreI’m quite certain that was the moment I realised that it wasn’t just the language I had absorbed…
Read MoreI am Dutch, grew up in Germany and went to an American international school. My husband is Japanese, grew up in Ecuador and went to both Japanese and American international schools there. We often joke that our family is like the UN with all its different cultures and languages…
Read MoreMy perceptions on sex have been hammered and scratched and polished. Although I still admit to catching myself admiring ankles from time to time…
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