We have come together not because of blood, but because we share bonds of a common outlook on life…
Read MoreAre white, American men going to keep steamrolling over our cultures with their incorrect ideas about who we are and how our differences could harm them?
Read MoreI recognize Lilly’s distress because when I was nineteen I returned from where I had been living in Venezuela with my diplomat parents to my home nation of the UK to start university…
Read MoreSex can be rice crackers, crumbs in the corners of the bag…
Read MoreI had kept my story to myself because it’s uncomfortable, and people never knew what to say…
Read MoreThey think it’s because of their badass demeanor, their cocky swagger, their muscle cars, and their tough reputations...
Read MoreIt’s my favorite choice for our annual Christmas brunch at one of the hotels in Tokyo…
Read MoreMy blue eyes and straight nose a legacy of Northern Europe and gifts from my ancestors…
Read MoreWoody persimmons sit on a small Japanese table with dark marker grimaces. Acrid pumpkins from China are baskets for treats...
Read MoreAfter realizing his cultural identity as a TCK, Peter faced a new inner conflict as he traveled between America and Korea: Should he stay true to his TCK identity or “take sides” with a single cultural identity?
Read MoreBut that was just it. I had to fit in wherever I went. Nobody else had to mould their ways to engage with my understanding of identity and belonging…
Read MoreI have come to realise that I don't have to decide whether I am American or Indian. I identify with humanity above everything else…
Read MoreYou pour your heart out. List your every reason, incident and rebuke. And still my little boat has not swamped and floundered. But now my shoes are wet and my socks are falling down in water weight…
Read MoreOn the silted shores of that Kashmiri lake from my childhood - my shoes slowly ruining in the slush of snow, mud and plum blossoms - I stood beside the houseboat we were staying in (which once hosted Henry Kissinger). That was the month Indira Gandhi was voted out and my whole family got stuck in India.
Read MoreMy friends asked me why I went out with him at all, knowing that he wasn’t from here. I said that’s why I was attracted to him…
Read More“We African-Americans understand. It is a Black experience” with a gesture that included Patrice. Patrice cut her off immediately. She held up her hand and said, “No one likes a blanket being thrown over them”…
Read MoreEvery time we moved and in each new country we lived, my mom openly embraced everything. I don’t know too many people who would have gone to a funeral of a neighbor just a few short months after moving in, but she was one of them...
Read MoreIn my native Spain, children at age six could drink 1/4 strength wine. At 16, you went to full strength. In Hawai’i when I was flying, it was “Hey, bruddha, can you drink with us?” Likewise, on Guam, the test would be handing someone a 5 dollar bill and asking them to go buy a 6-pack of beer...
Read MoreMy family and my blood are in Alaska. My heart will hold up north and I fool no one. But my also “family” exists as much to me down in Texas and California, Washington and Tokyo...
Read MoreI can choose how Japanese I am: I never leave my chopsticks standing up in a bowl of rice because that is a funeral practice here and I avoid the number 4 like the plague in food service...
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